So there I was, belting out a power ballad and planning a bit of world domination (we all do it, don’t judge me). Mid-dance move, the water temperature suddenly did a dramatic U-turn.
Next thing I know, I’m hopping around the shower like a caffeinated kangaroo, trying to avoid the arctic tundra my shower turned into.
And let's just say that my vocabulary suddenly expanded to include some colorful language that I won’t be sharing with you here.
Most of us have been there.
The culprit? The sanitize setting for some bedding I was running through the washer. Whoops. I overcommitted my water and paid a hilarious price.
We each have a finite energy supply, like a personal reservoir that fuels everything from conquering our to-do lists to navigating emotional whirlwinds. When things go smoothly, we're balanced and in control, feeling like we could conquer the world (or at least tackle that overflowing inbox).
But life, much like a shared bathroom, loves to throw a wrench in the works. Work deadlines, family drama, surprise illnesses—these can act like a mega-flush, draining our energy reserves faster than you can say "hot water shortage!"
Just like that shower shock, these unexpected diversions can leave us feeling frazzled, depleted, and maybe a tad hangry (no judgment, we've all been there). It's not that we can't handle life's curveballs, but we must recognize that our energy isn't an all-you-can-eat buffet. When we pour a lot into one area, other areas might temporarily feel the pinch.
So, what's a shower-shocked soul to do?
Well, we can't always control life's unexpected flushes, but we can better prepare for them with a few simple strategies:
Build Up Those Reserves
Think of your energy like a hot water heater. If it's tiny, outdated, and in need of maintenance, it's going to struggle to keep up with demand, especially when you throw in a few extra loads of laundry (or, you know, life's curveballs).
Prioritize good sleep – that's when your body recharges and repairs itself.
Fuel up with nourishing food that makes you feel energized, not sluggish.
And get moving! Even if it's just a silly dance party in your living room, exercise helps boost your energy levels and resilience.
By building up your reserves, you'll be better equipped to handle whatever life throws your way.
Anticipate Fluctuations
Life is full of peaks and valleys, and your energy levels will naturally fluctuate along with it.
If you know a big project or stressful event is on the horizon, be proactive.
Create some breathing room in your schedule, say "no" to unnecessary commitments, and give yourself permission to indulge in some extra soothing care. Think bubble baths, cozy blankets, a good book, or even a guilt-free Netflix binge.
Remember, taking care of yourself isn't selfish; it's essential for navigating life's challenges with grace and resilience.
Planning ahead for a shift is honestly… hard. So I created a quick and easy worksheet for you to use to avoid the shower shock!
Embrace Flexibility: The Graceful Pivot
Sometimes, despite our best efforts, life throws us a curveball, and our energy levels take a nosedive.
Maybe it's a surprise illness, a family crisis, or just one of those days where everything seems to go wrong.
When that happens, don't beat yourself up. Then, do these three things:
Acknowledge the shift
Adjust your expectations
Give yourself permission to slow down or recalibrate
Maybe swap that power ballad for a soothing lullaby, trade that intense workout for a gentle walk in nature, or simply curl up on the couch with a cup of tea. Remember, flexibility is key.
By honoring your energy levels and adapting to the situation, you'll navigate life's ups and downs with more ease and less stress.
When you are shower shocked, a pivot is necessary. And it’s simpler than you think. Download this handy infographic that you can keep around so that when you are shower-shocked, you can make a graceful pivot.
Shower shock syndrome is a metaphor for life itself: unpredictable, messy, and full of surprises. But within that chaos lies an opportunity for growth and self-discovery. By tuning into our energy flow, honoring our needs, and embracing flexibility, we can navigate life's challenges gracefully and emerge stronger on the other side.
So, my friend, I challenge you to become an energy ninja (sorry, I couldn’t for the life of me come up with a different word)! Pay attention to your body's signals, prioritize self-care, and embrace the ebb and flow of life. Remember, you have the power to create a life that feels balanced, fulfilling, and authentically you.
Now go out there and shine!
'Create some breathing room in your schedule...'
Previously, I used to be solely focused on progress and growing my blog; I was constantly thinking about moving forward.
Nowadays I'm listening more to my body and taking time to throughout my daily schedule to just relax and appreciate the present.
It is as if you are tuned into my life through some mystical entity! I am experiencing many of the ups and in your newsletter post, Shower Shock Syndrome, points out. You have such an intelligent, comprehensive style when you write that it is bound to help others as well as me who are living everyday trials and tribulations. I need to express how grateful I am for all the helpful ways you impart. I put them into practice as you suggest and they work, I have every confidence this latest post of yours will be great, too. Thank you so very much Dr. Lovell! ❤️🌼